Choice, pressure, or force? What is the best way to make a woman feel like she has the power to say no, while still stripping away her ability to do so? To make her feel that sublime balance of agency and helplessness? As best as I can tell, you simply try your best to learn all you can about the woman, to garner her trust and have her return it, to satisfy that part of her that is always yearning to be free and yet bound together all at once. Then I lay it over her lips and wait for her to kiss it before moving two fingers down the side of her neck to pet her, stroke her, and comfort her.