Modal Trigger Bored after 18 years with her husband, Robin Rinaldi placed an ad seeking casual encounters with new men and women. She tells what happened on her yearlong sex odyssey in her memoir "The Wild Oats Project. Rinaldi pictured on her wedding day was with her husband for 18 years before deciding she wanted more. Stuck in a rut — our once-a-week sex life was loving, but lacked spontaneity and passion — I was craving seduction and sexual abandon. I was having a midlife crisis and chasing this profound, deeply rooted experience of being female.
Polyamory, for us, fills that obligation rather nicely. April 8, Embed from Getty Images After much hand-wringing and schedule shifting, my wife finally landed herself a girlfriend and holy crap. My wife was one of very few entities in this world that I had a physical reaction to when I first met her. Her girlfriend is no different. Her physical beauty aside, with which she is extremely rich this woman has a luminous soul and is so awkward it sets my heart breaking.